H.O.M.E.

Honor the Lord

Obey His Word

Minister to one another

Establish walls of truth

When looked at it in this light, the word "home" means so much more than just a place to live. Isn't that what we want all of our homes to be? More than a place to sleep and eat and occasionally clean, we want our homes to be a place where lives are shaped into God's design. This little acronym zeroes in on four important goals we should have for our home. The exciting thing is, no matter who lives there, or what problems we are facing, or what limits we feel like we have, with effort and intention our homes can be places where these four things happen.

Honor the Lord: We can honor God with our lips, but yet our hearts can be far from Him (Mt. 15:8) -- and the people who live with us will be the first to know when we do this! Let's seek to honor Him behind the closed doors of our homes, living out our devotion to Him in a visible, gentle way as we realize that our families are watching.

Obey His Word: Obeying His Word at home is not always easy. The Bible tells us to be submissive to our husbands, to love our wives, to love others more than we love ourselves, and to pick up our cross (as we pick up after our children, or care for our elderly parents). When we do these things with humility, those we most want to impact will notice. More than that, they will file it away in their hearts, and our lives will echo in theirs in ways we can't possibly foresee.

Minister to one another: Ministry requires us to love others, to reach others, and to lay down our lives for the sake of those God has placed in our sphere of influence. This must happen at home first. And yet, if we're honest, it's usually the last place it happens. We go out and give the best of what we have to offer to others, then give our leftovers to the people we profess to love the most. Let's minister to those in our own homes first.

Establish walls of truth: How is it Biblical to establish walls? We usually think of walls as a means to keep people out. When in actuality, we need to be building walls of truth--God's truth, designed not to keep others out but to guard our hearts and give us a safe place to retreat and to rest. These walls of truth make our homes into fortresses--a place to run to when our daily battles wear us out.

Finally, these are not things we can just do once and move on. They are daily requirements, regular sacrifices, and even personal struggles. We won't ever do it perfectly and there will be days we feel we are taking one step up and two steps back. But with God's help, we can keep working to make H.O.M.E. mean so much more.